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SunflowerGirl1121, before you react to anything about this man, just read the articles and posts at www.lovefraud.com.  It could save your life, literally.

These people engage in "gaslighting" and brainwashing - they take away what we have:  empathy, goals, ethics, and our own sense of self.  They do it for money, sex, control, and personal entertainment.  They do not have empathy.  They do not have a conscience  They do not feel remorse or pity.  The damages that I've experienced from over 12 years of marriage to a sociopath destroyed my credit, my finances, and I lost everything that I owned as a result, and almost my mind. 

Read as much as you can.  Process the facts and separate the facts from your feelings.  Set your feelings aside and absorb the truths about these people and save yourself.  You are a priceless part of this vast Universe and you cannot be replaced. 

Brightest blessings to you.