Our society is so prudish it's a wonder that people can even look into the
mirror - both the one on the wall, and the one that peers inside one's
self. I understand your dilemma and for each one the solution will be
different. Having lived with a female or two for many years I know that
your body is so different than mine that I can't even begin to understand the
inner workings and I doubt that most doctors do either. But an herb
to lower your hormones will lead to other problems - won't it?
I didn't have an open relationship but we always had open communication into
intimate desires and wishes and if you were a good friend of mine I'd suggest
you invest in a Sybian - whether you have a partner or not.