Re: sandra bullock: yet another nice girl who marries bad.

I agree with that, not sure why.

Maybe a need to be needed, codependency or that women need to fix things.
But do we also have to fix our guys???? That`s not using our brains.
I was married for many years with a guy that I prayed, begged, and threatened to change. He never did, so I changed.

It`s waisted energy to ty to change someone....Use that energy to change yourself.

Either you like him the way it is or you better save your time and energy for more important matters.
We woman do not need a man to have happy, succesful and fullfiled lives.

Just my sense of it.