you know, i am always amazed at how much sympathy goes to the woman in situations like this when all the blame should be squarely put on the wife. that's correct. sandra is a traditional, nice, sweetheart of a honey who you would think would attract a nice, traditional, great guy of her caliber? no. she allows herself to fall prey to a tattoed, freaky, addictive personality many grade levels below her in every category of human existence...and with the ultimate knowledge that jesse james married a porn star formerly, dated strippers, druggies, alocholics, whores and the like...she continues on like this is a minor speed bump to marital bliss. well, once again, the stupid wife gets creamed.

women hold all the decision-making power, ladies and gentlemen. jesse james is a piece of fecal matter. was before sandra met him, was after she married him. but yet, will all the red flags, this nice girl with the all the upbringing gets involved with the dark side. and now her life will be forever changed. sandra, you're a stupid, stupid woman in real life. maybe a swell actress onstage, but a stupid person on life's stage.

memo to all women out there of dating and marrying age: notice the red flags. heed my warning. use your brain. don't date druggies or alcoholics. don't date freaks who have done all the women on the west side of sunset strip. if your guy shows a propinsity to indulge in freaky sex, boot his ass out the door instantly. sandra should've listened. hell, she had a history on this guy. remember, we all know that jesse james is a loser, that's no surprise. what is a surprise, and probably shouldn't be, is that sandra could've seen this coming. there are always signs. always.