I think maybe it can be dangerous to think you must unite for the greater good, Better still would be to divide for the greater good. We have done enough forced uniting. Jesus didn't advocate uniting but loving. Individuals are each more powerful when they connect to God and then share their voice. Not when they join a crowd and become its voice. Refreshed is trying to tell you she is not one of a luke warm group of Christians who just joined a crowd to pay lip service with no foundation. If you can read between the lines, it helps. Like you did with the number guy. It is a soul thing. You'll like this (: