actually, your question is quite good.

been busy but back for more enlightening interaction on curezone...your comments are one who actually is real, a woman who thinks out loud the thoughts that many are too afraid to utter. i think you're quite the gal, to be honest. you aren't lieing to yourself about the situation, this is life and this is how it is. sex isn't a part of your marriage, that's your reality. question is: do you want to put up with no sex, always wondering what your guy is doing with or without you? well? he's getting sex somewhere, you know it, i know it, we all know it. you're a brave soul to acknowledge it.

people reading your post are probably on your side, so don't clam up and think it will be alright some day, some how. it won't. not unless you take the bull by the horns right here and now. a husband who will not give his wife sex, for whatever reason he wants to give, isn't the deal you signed up for. harsh to hear, but i think you can chew on it for a couple days without hiding in the corner. i commend you for taking care of your physical appearance. you may need it. if i were a betting man i'd say that you and i both know this marriage isn't what you want for the rest of your life. and the rest of your life is exactly what we're talking about here.

where do you think i'm going with this?



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