Re: Not a good question about sex

If only enthusiasm or cute gimmicks were enough to fix a problem that is way deeper. I've done more extravagant stunts than this... I anticipate that he would most likely laugh and think it's a good joke or say no, or try to and have performance anxiety since there's pressure on him in that moment to suddenly become romantic. Unfortuantely, there are bigger issues. I anticipate these responses because of my experience with him.

Second, after having been turned down so many many times, it hurts to put myself out there to be turned down again, although I'm used to it, sure enough.

And lastly, if the afternoon goes well, we would come home and not have sex for a month or two...

If only enthusiasm and a sense of adventure were enough, I'd have fixed this thing long, long ago. Indeed, it never would have begun... Tweet