Hello, I think this is a very usual problems between couples, we can never tell how loyal our partner is. No question that were having a high divorce rate here in our country. Well, it happened and there is nothing we can do about, if she does it ones, then i think its ok, but twice? it is unacceptable. You should think wisely now, its hard to pretend she loves you but in reality she doesnt. its better to to get divorce and talk about children, just be smart and think of yourself and your children