"Nevertheless, I think people deserve support even if they don't heed the advice."
okay--This is great!!!!!!!Esp. if you are being honest about supporting all this. But this forum is not that place...that's all. "SUPPORT" to me, as used, often brings up a picture of a place people were told would be "okay" when Katrina hit. Do you recall this? It was a 'super' dome...it was horrific.