I guess it's good that I'm only mildly hot b/c I'd rather have the hot sex! lolz
I don't know if it can be made that simple, but I think you may be right about most smokin' hot folks. Smokin' hot guys also have that same issue. They're so hot, b/c the girls want them, they get a sense of privilage and don't try to please. They become lazy/selfish lovers.