Re: when in doubt,

hi C, yes, the fact is, we can't *actually* see each other (not just "*feel* unseen" as you prefer) so it is very very easy to be misunderstood (or "not taken in the spirit intended" as you prefer) when we only have text to go by.

this is why i avoid any "sort of big time teasing" as you call it (def. tease: to harass mockingly, stir or ridicule someone playfully or maliciously) especially on a public forum, unless i can be sure my goodwill and humor is patently obvious.

whereas your... "I am hoping actualhealth will be inspired to make one comprehensive post, that includes some suggested source materials, and then I swear I will joyfully RRRRR it which is the purring aspect of GRRRR-ing it"

Mmm... that "GRRRR-ing" aspect sounds more like a gremlin lurking in the background than unburdened goodwill. and what's with the "hoping"? do you honestly expect me (or anyone here) to step up to the plate just to fulfill 'your expectations' so as to be bestowed your grandiose "RRRRR" rewards ??? you-have-GOT-to-be-kidding!

see what i mean? teasing is risky business at the best of times let alone on a message board to people you don't know. its just begging for that "spirit intended" to be well and truly misinterpreted.

give me clarity and outright humor any day, then there's nothing to apologize for.

best of health on your fast