Thank you, O3_THE_WAR_IS_ON. I pray that you are right. I am just having a hard time because the female is being evasive. During the last conversation, I point blank asked her and she said "I don't think that I want to talk to you anymore." HOW'S THAT, HOT DAMN.
Then, it's like a painless bump will appear and go down after a few days (chest, near jaw, near ear). It has to be lymph nodes. I hear what you say about chilling out, but unfortunately I've got a family and I have to account to them. It's my fault and take full responsibility.
That is why I am trying my best to do what I can do before I can work up the nerve to test (at some point I have to test). But, I'll save this story for another forum. Right now, I am just trying to find a solution for me to implement.