Re: Odds he is a narcissist

At the moment we are cordial, not like in the past where we used to share everything and talk about everything (was referred to as her person), I spoke to the others and they reckon they themselves keep it distant.

For now I'm keeping it cordial as she doesn't keep as much contact as me as in the past, I mean since the start she has been over at his place almost everyday, that said though there was over three weeks where he was too busy to see her even though he helps her study for her studies as he is in the same line of work, he helped her before, but suddenly now he is too busy, which is odd.

Most said, we'll be there when she crashes, I dunno if she is maybe bipolar, borderline, codependent or a combination of those as she has a traumatic history, I myself have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder centered around death, and as of late have been experiencing some severe traumas (Death of family members and hospitalization for near-pneumonia), so not alot of contact with anyone.

She has once before lost track of stuff like this, namely at seventeen, she flipped out, got wasted and slept with loads of girls. Thing is, she has never been with a guy, her first experience with a girl was traumatic (The molestation), should her first time be with a guy who gets callous amusement out of her suffering, that's what really just makes me feel meh, I mean if he drops her, she has no one, I'm not there and her other friends left (believe me, some have no intention of being close with her again, I'm one of the few who still wants to be close to her), she will try for self harm or do worse, I dunno, maybe when he has dumped her, I can use that as a window so she can get counselling, hell I'd go with her every session, she means the world to me, always has, always will. Tweet