Re: Odds he is a narcissist

Well here is the thing, I did tell her my opinions, and not only did she not give a hoot, she actually attacked me and all her old friends, in defense of him and his friends (who are such nice people who use drugs I kid you not and get wasted 50% of the time, half of them have cheated and look to this guy as something of a hero).

This guy has weird sense of attachment, I mean his longest relationship was with an Indian girl, who he dated for 9 months, then just suddenly dumped the moment he found a new girl who interested him, and basically severed the Indian girl.

She has always been stable, but alot of personal heartbreaks occured beginning of the year, and well, she sorta flipped out in February, became involved with this crowd and this guy.
I mean she barely spoke to him when he first asked her for sex (not a date), she spoke to him maybe three sentences and knew him three hours.

Problem is she doesn't listen to me either, as things kinda became more than friends between us (which she initiated and then suddenly denied even in front of people who witnessed this), and now she says it's just cause I have issues cause I like her (if you haven't guessed it, I'm male).
We started out as best friends and circa January stuff kinda went very flirtatious and somewhat sexual.

Our other mutual friends she won't listen as she claims it's out of prejudice as he is part Turkish, and she and they are Armenian and there is historic bad blood with the two due to the Armenian Genocide. The truth is, even if he were Armenian himself they'd be annoyed because he is an ass (directly saying women are like dogs and must be taught obedience), we showed this to her and she just denied it existed and then minimized it, idealized him and devalued us.

However, my concern was not out of selfishness, while I won't deny I find her attractive and wonderful, and would not mind to be more than just friends, my initial kneejerk reaction to this guy was because I found it strange that some guy who has a girlfriend would ask someone out and then push continuously after she refused.

Alot of people told me just forget about her, as she hasn't been too kind the last few months, but I've never had anyone I get along with so well and whether as friends or more than friends, I deeply care for her, and besides me she has no one close to turn to (she and her mom are so distant it's unreal, plus her mother verbally abusive), so I feel abandoning her would be wrong, specially as when she was near suicidal I swore to her I'd never abandon her like her father and her mother did after the molestation.

Thing is, she has been suicidal and self harming before and this really worries me too. Tweet