Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated

You've gotten incredible answers. Mine is the same-- she is not interested in you.

The best remedy for a situation like this, to *not* get out of control or messy, is to speak up and talk honestly, but respectfully of what's on your mind.. If you don't, then she doesn't know what you are thinking, expecting etc.. and vice versa. This is not so much a case of her using you.. do you see? In order for this to never happen again and to grow as a person, you need to take responsibility for what happened, and see that you had a part to play in what happened.. How can good boundaries be established if you don't know what's really happening? There was no communication.

I would recommend the 'Be Still and Know' meditation. It helps promote objective thinking overall, but also willhelp shed that attachment to this girl, and give you back your happiness and personhood. It really works..I've been using it.

Free mp3 download at:
fhu.com/meditation-download.html