Re: .........lol

Its really interesting to see this girl blamed by people on here. She is not responsible for how the original poster feels, thats his responsibility. It looks to me like she's been trying to give a message by being unavailable, perhaps the original poster should take the message and back off.

I do wonder why the original poster had to mention that the girl is a model, I fail to see how what she looks like has anything to do with how she acts. Would the OP feel less upset by her behaviour if she was average looking?

Nobody can 'make' us have feelings for them, as you said UM, we create these attachments, and we use them to satisfy our own needs and expectations. This girl Jane may have had no intention of anything more than casual friendship, and the OP has just read far too much into everything.

As my Mum said, "act like a doormat and people will wipe their feet on you". Other people will not have respect for someone who does not respect themselves.

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