Re: isn't sex a really animal thing?

Yes, it is. The more a man indulges in sex, the less of a man and the weaker he becomes. Instead he becomes more of a beast.

When men can understand that a woman can never give him the sense of identity he longs for, or can fill the loneliness inside of him, he will stop making woman his God, and stop using and abusing her, like an object. When a woman realizes that a man can never give her the love she needs, and stops believing the lie that men tell her -that sex is love, then she will stop flirting, and being a temptress to men. She will also be free of her guilt, and her lying to men that she loves sex. This was just to gain acceptance and love which she never fully gets. A woman's deepest craving is for a fatherly/brotherly type of love. A love of herself, her real personhood. She compromises for her own ego and sense of security. Men, you give her so much power over you.

Finding a sense of identity as a man, and the cure for loneliness, the answer is God.

To find love and correction, as a woman the answer is God.

In the meanwhile, man and woman will continue to play their games, each feeling guilty and having anxiety - she lying, he using and abusing her, but yet each feeling better because the other is playing along. This is why there is so much divorce, breakups and affairs..because all of this is not love. This so called 'love' is good as long as what you do for me is getting my needs met -- ego gratification.It's fairly obvious why this type of 'love' does not last.

True Love is consideration and concern for each other. When true selfless consideration and concern is shown, burning sexua| desire diminishes. Love is not sex, it surpasses sex. True identity comes from being reconnected to God, and regaining the power and glory that he gave you as a man. This is why man will never be satisfied by a woman.

Is sex an animal thing? Absolutely. Are human beings animals? No, they are spirit.


See my post up above titled "Understanding Sexuality". Read the entire e-book, if you can - it is mindblowing. The shackles will be removed from your eyes, if you can be humbled. I think that woman will see the truth more readily than the men.