Oh, I have enjoyed sex PLENTY, but have been a widow for 9 years - so what are those of us to do who are not blessed with a built-in partner??? I would love to be getting some "depression" relief, but not with just any ole BODY, cuz some bodies carry STD's and other not so fun stuff, and I have had enough physical problems in the last few years without all that too. I could have an interest in sex, of course, no doubt, with a great relationship in place, but relationships are fraught with difficulty, and some of that difficulty has always been getting the MAN to slow the f_c_ down so a girl may ENJOY the whole thing ALSO, and now that the world and every body in it is going even faster with even less personal interaction cuz every thing is online I just don't know exactly how this will ever happen......