John McCain 2008 are you out there?

Hey JMC, sure could use your straight talkin' man-view. So you know my situation from before when we had a discussion about my husband and our sex life. I had additional question about men/p 0 r n/self-gratification.

Since our discussion, he brought up us not having sex and we talked a little (lightly, not making it a huge deal), and a few days later he initiated. Progress (I hope).

Now, thankfully I've come to understand that men watching p 0 r n is universal. I'm not one of those dames who think the marriage is over because I find out about it. Men ALL do it. I don't understand it, but I understand that this is true.

So today he is home for President's Day and I work from home. I went upstairs to work and I find that while I was in my office, he ordered some PPV adult stuff. Here is what I don't understand: why would a man spank the monkey at home when his wife is home? If she is open and willing pretty much anytime, would a man not prefer to go and get the real thing? He knows I enjoy spontaneous liasons, so me working should not be an obstacle.

I look forward to any insight you can offer, because I truly do not understand. Tweet