"We've had some conversations about this in the past and I think the net effect is to make him more self-conscious of what he isn't doing and add pressure and wierdness to the situation. If he is generally happy with the way things are, I wonder if I really should bring it up. Mr. JohnMcCain2008/SherlockHolmes was very much for avoiding the wierdness. You're a guy as well, so what about that angle?"
Honesty and communication are part of healthy relationships right? So why are telling us that you want more sex from your husband? You need to tell him since he is the one who can do anything about your needs! Be honest and schedule dates or get togethers. Be creative and get a game plan going!