Re: sherlock holmes, at your service, ma'dam.

Thanks, Sherlock. Yes, his work is a primary factor in his life and it does take a lot of energy. Even when it is slow it takes up emotional energy. I wish he would bust the mental mold and spontaneously pull over on the side of the road and steam up the truck with me. *le sigh*

I don't know how to change his home paradigm. He's a stubborn and intense guy. He's intense about work as with everything else (as with sex when he's focused on it).

I fear ruining the vacation sex so what I'm thinking in response to this is suck it up, remain sexually available, plan vacations... and masterbate. Maybe over time things will loosen up, or maybe I'll start planning long weekends more frequently, lol. See, even with investigating, I think it needs to be subtle so as not to make it worse by adding wierdness... so it may take a long time to see if something can change it.

Is slipping him v1agra out of the question? Although he's far to young/virile for it really... no I wouldn't do that. Thank you for your opinion. Tweet