Re: smart girl. a little playing with yourself, spanking the monkey and more vacations.

Thanks, I appreciate hearing another guy's point of view on it. It sounds like part of the message is "it's not a big deal" - which is something a gal needs to hear. Otherwise, we wonder if it will eventually bring down everything! (You know how we worry, yes?)

There must be something about leaving the daily concerns and routines of life... I can deal with that. A more sexually relaxed life is a small price to pay for the wonderful comforts of our relationship.