Re: my difficult child. Please offer some insight

Why are we offering up excuses for bad behavior?

I'm sorry but the behaviors we have in this post are unexceptable. Who is the adult and who is the child.

I'm sorry in society today, lets spoil the child and when they are out of control lets blame someone else or look for an excuse.

Life is not all about me-me-me!
You should instill love,postive reinforcements in a child,but when it comes to this kind of behavior, where in the world are the parents mind.

The problem I see when these behaviors started as small childen it was let slide. Now you have kids that are acting innapropriatly and are out of control. Go ahead and
let's blame food, spanking, heaven forbid we should squash there bad behaviors, or the tounge lashing you or someone else reieves.

These are kids that have been babied,not given responsibility and probably have never been made to follow the rules. It is a lot of work to raise a child, the parent can not be lazy about this. It is a 24/7 job.

Kids do not and should not raise theirselves or left to their own devices.

They need to be nurtured, loved and disciplined at an early age. Sorry parents you whimped out.

When the first time they threw theirselves on the floor screaming and you babied them or wrung your hands in dismay and didn't know what to do.

Good old commom sense, if needd be a hand to the backside.

Go ahead and give your horrified remarks back, but you have done this yourself to your child.

Now step up to the plate and be a parent. Give that child some structure in their lives, some rules to live by and most of of let them know just how darn important and loved they are.
Your not going to let them turn out the way they are headed. The time is now, turn this mess around and get going. Be a parent, sometimes you have to step up and do your job that God gave you.

Quit looking for excuses. It floored me when the lady said she should have taken her daughter out sooner, because she was head to head with this teacher. Sorry that's wrong.

That teacher should of been supported. That child should have been told she needed to follow the rules, and if the teacher asked her to do a lesson she should have done it.
End of discussion.

Go ahead give in, don't be a parent, you have to be a parent that is involved, not on the sidelines.

Good luck because you are going to need it unless you can start being a adult, parent and take charge.

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