Sounds like intense relationship times. (me too - and many others too - what with Pluto opposing Venus it has been time to either let a relationship die or transform it and deepen it. Either way the energy is dramatic, intense, challenging and transformative)
Have you had overly-idealistic feelings towards this guy? Did something happen, or did he do something that kind of shocked you out of this dreamy idealism?
Let me know if this is at all correct before I go on...