"it bothered him because he couldn't give her an cllmax...!!! wow...!!! how insecure can one get... how totally selfish and self centered to think that he has the power of control over another... what a totally inept lack of love on his part..."
Huh? I'm certainly no relationship expert but... I've always thought that women want men who can give them cllmaxs, so naturally it would be upsetting. Total selfishness would be ejaculating without consideration to wether or not your partner is experiencing any pleasure. I figure women want cllmaxs and if you're not very sexually experienced or hung like a p 0 r n star, why bother with relationships at all? Are you suggesting that women want something other than a man who can make them cllmax over and over?