what is this thing they call "love"...???

do you really know what love is...??? or is it only what you think love is...??? sex is sex... which boils down to basic animal instincts... anyone can climax... (that is any healthy adult animal)... but... when "two spirits" meet in sexual bliss it is an experience that can never be forgotten... (note: it takes "two")

the next question is... has any of your past lovers ever known what love truly is...??? (it doesn't sound like it)...

***He has told me before that he had to end a relationship with one of his previous girlfriends because he couldnt give her an orgasm and it upset him. So I fake it. Its not right, I know.

it bothered him because he couldn't give her an orgasm...!!! wow...!!! how insecure can one get... how totally selfish and self centered to think that he has the power of control over another... what a totally inept lack of love on his part...

perhaps the problem is that neither of you know how to truly love... maybe what the two of you have for each other is merely "lust/desire"... this is only my opinion (which... however is based on my own experiences)... there is a distinct difference between our wants... needs... and desires... which can be easily satisfied but usually are temporary or fleeting at best... true love is something altogether different...

true love is about caring... commitment... devotion... compassion... tenderness... to the point that one would do anything and everything humanly possible to please the other... and when you have "two" people so inclined the results are out of this world bliss... where each is doing anything and everything in their power to please the other... but...!!! underneath it all is "spirit"... "love is spiritual"... it is not animal instincts... and the beauty happens when one can bring the two worlds together...

hope i didn't offend you in any way... that was not my intention... for... although i have had many sexual partners in my time... the one that i truly loved... and that truly loved me... took me to heights i had never known before... mentally... physically... emotionally... and spiritually... and even though i am not with her today... i still love her... and even though the sex will never be the same as it was then... i still love her... and even though she has done many things to hurt me/and i her... i will still love her...

(sometimes love hurts) :(
and it has a way of making us not ever want to give our heart and soul to another because of the tremendous pain it caused... i think we all fall prey to such thinking... (part of our human protective instincts i suppose)... but the rewards of finding a partner that can love you to the same depths that you love him will make all the past pains disappear... i would suggest you give yourself to him completely... love him to the very depths of your soul... for as we give... so shall we receive... and even if in the end he should leave... you will always look back in fondness of what a wonderful beautiful person you were and what a total ass he was for leaving you... ;-)

i wish you and yours... (as well as all the other couples in the world)... all the best that "love" has to offer...

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