Re: I've faked it so much, I don't think I can really orgasm! HELP WHAT TO DO?

You are extremely young, and may not have gotten to truly relax into your own skin during sex. You are worried about what he thinks, what is 'supposed' to happen, when and how.

The only way you will get to cllmax during sexual intercourse is to have a lot of foreplay, just light interaction, skin stimulation, mental engagement, completely 'turning the engine on' beforehand as it were, then to relax and let yourself become immersed in your thoughts. And think of what makes you get more sexified. More relaxed. It is like water in the ocean: once you let the body go water just takes you - it caresses and envelops and then - you let go and feel free.

Don't worry about what you have seen - or how you think you should sound, or what you think he wants to hear. You are not performing live in a play. However you can make up your own story... it is you being you for you.

Uh, one more thing: pressure and speed can affect your body's reaction. Too much stimulation and the feeling's gone. But only you can gauge that so you can then communicate your thoughts in your own way. Few men realize that the areas around their favorite spots are actually much more erogenous than the 'main attractions'...
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