Xenia I understand, as Christians we have to make these types of decisions because we live in a world of non-Christian values. That is why it is comfortable to be with other Christians because we feel freer to speak our minds and not start a war of words with others.
Of course anytime we are to be a light, there is that balance of caring about people and still standing for Truth. We always hope that we are filled with the Holy Spirit so will make the correct decisions.
I consider sara an internet friend but our differences may sometimes get in the way of being true friends that can support each other the way we want them to.
None of us know the real deep down beliefs of people on the internet....sometimes the people themselves do not even know until it comes out in writing for the world to see. That is why is it important for people to be careful what they write and make sure true understanding of one's thoughts is shown. We are known by our thoughts and actions.
So if you felt your presence on her forum caused you be in agreement with her on that post, I do understand why you left.
BTW, I did send you a PM on the other matter. Hope you got it. :)