Re: What would you do?

Thank you for each of these replies.

he does know that the sex is slacking, but claims that after work he is just so tired. He works in construction, has been with the same company for 19 years.. he will retire from it. No changing jobs now.

Its funny, when he works a lot, I miss him, when he is off due to weather, he gets on my nerves.

My daughter likes him, but only because he is very passive. She gets away with murder around him. He does not take a disciplinary role at all, that is all left on me. That bothers me some. Not asking him to whip out a belt and beat them... but just stop telling them to "ask your mom, its ok with me, but ask her"

If a person has to question if they are in love.... well probably not then huh. How sad. No, I do not think I have ever "been in love" with him. I love him, care for, admire.. but its not that butterflies in the stomach love.

I honestly think our relationship came about out of convenience for us both. Financially, we both do ok alone, but live very well together.

But same thing I told a friend of mine... I rather be broke and happy, than rich and miserable.