What would you do?

I know that by telling a short story of my situation, you cant always give your best opinion, but anything is worth hearing as far as i am concerned...

I have been in a relationship with a man for the last 3 years. He works hard and is a great provider. BUT I am just not happy.

Sex is almost non existent, and when we do have sex, it just isnt very satisying to me. He is about 10 years older than me. I am 33.

He is great to my kids (not his) he very seldom raises his voice, and as I stated he is a hard worker, and makes great money. BUT i do not want to stay in a relationship where deep down inside, I am not happy.

I have considered leaving him, and starting over completely, moving to a new state and everything. But my daughter just started high school, and I do not want to uproot her. My son has really taken to him, and i hate to pluck him out of his life. (their own fater is passed away since 2005)I want stability for my kids, but at what point do us mothers have the chance for happiness? Tweet