Re: Am I a freak? (Long story, please bear with me!)
I do body work on people. There are
always those who will *PUSH* the
boundaries to see where they are.
I have learned it is up to me to set
my boundaries and demand respect for
them. Likewise, in your relationship,
it is up to YOU to set your boundaries
and stand by them.
If YOU want to be appropriate, you
will be. The relationship you describe
sounds a bit like playing with fire.
If this is what you want then you
will have to assert yourself and let
your new "friend" know where your
boundaries are. You cannot depend
on this person to set them or to respect
them as he has shown he is willing to be
inappropriate already.
best wishes,
Zoe
-_-