Women who state that they are OK with their guy looking at other gals...aren't OK with it! That's why it's an issue. If you were OK with it, you wouldn't have opened up the issue. You've got troubling sex partner ethics that are big trouble down the road. You want to be a lesbian but you got this guy, blah, blah, blah. Just pick one and quit with the politically correct, milktoast verbage that so many of your generation spews. He sees you as the ultimate fantasy date that doesn't care one way or the other, both of you have loose moral judgments, and you want to pin the guy down on who he comments about? Ain't gonna happen. You may be the sweetest gal around but your view of healthy relations with a guy is so screwed up that you're destined to be used for pleasure. At least until you grow up and settle on a real foundation of sexual ethics.