Re: Boyfriend Checking out Other Girls

Do you guys get together with other men... or even just you? If not, it is not sounding like an open relationship. It sounds like he is getting the best of both his worlds. Can you gawk and sexually comment about other men and he won't be jealous. Was this discussed in your relationship.

And if he is doing the gawking and it is bothering you, he is probably thinking that you don't mind since you mentioned you like other women, so why would he know that it is bothering you.

In my world, most men automatically assume if you like p 0 r n, you like what they like. Or if they ask you if you would go to a stripclub, and you said yes, they are assuming you are talking about going to see female strippers, and not male strippers. Or if they ask if you would like a threesome, they are automatically assuming with another girl and not with a guy. If we ask those questions right back at them, we know how they are thinking. You have to tell them what is bothering you, because in my experience they just can't think outside of their box unless you tell them, at least in sexual issues.

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