Re: Need good sound advise please.

" I also do have assets of my own which for some reason or another we have kept separate. " Some reason?

Smart move! Especially with a well-off partner who doesn't want to join finances by getting married (I'd bet his are more than yours). Perhaps you can use your assets to get more education while he watches the child. Or just save it for any future separation from Mr. finacially secure.

Good luck.