Re: heartbroke over strained relationship
It seems to me that the other posters are steering you away from this relationship. You are going through a grieving process and if you add to this an inevitable unstable relationship with a Bipolar person, I can only agree that continuing in this relationship may make things worse for you. But of course the ultimate decision is up to you.
I suggest that it may be better for you to FIRST fix yourself up and get rid of any
Depression that you may have. Mood disorders are basically signs of an unhealthy body producing the wrong kinds of neurotransmitters. This will inevitably affect your self-image and your self-esteem. With a low self-esteem you will always be vulnerable to manipulation by people who themselves may not be mentally healthy.
We have a a self-help program that allows you to treat yourself by getting you to read articles about the biological and psychological aspects of human behaviour. It empowers you to treat yourself and through the psychotherapy course to rebuild your self-confidence and your self-worth. A person with a healthy self-respect will be enable you to withstand any disappointments in relationships and make possible for you to choose the right person. Give yourself some time to study this and life will improve for you.
The program is at:
Self-help Personal Growth Psychotherapy at:
http://www.hypoglycemia.asn.au/articles/self-help_personal_growth.html
Let us know how you get on.