Do you think date rape drugs were placed in your drink and this is why it did not bother you as much as it obstructed your rationale and memory of the incident at the time. I was raped when I was a virgin and it did not bother me then because I did not realize that I was raped as I was drugged and lost memory of it but after the memories resurfaced it began to affect me. If you know this person, I would have him charged and his friends charged too. They are disgusting! I am sorry this happened to you. I can empathize.