And I'm so relieved I don't have to slap you upside the head ;-)
I can't wait until you feel that sense of control. I also can't wait for her betrayal and bad behavior really start to sink it and the lesson will begun to be learned. You will go through quite an anger stage and I truly wouldn't talk to her (unless you absolutely have to) for quite awhile. You will say things you regret, and will be pulled down into a mire of emotion, and possibly guilt or longing. Heal young man.
Gosh I wish I was there to help you pack. I mean that. I love it when people feel empowered, it has a magical way of energizing the planet.
Please let us know how you are doing in a week or so, Okay?