Re: Cheated on again

So...you are going to marry a girl (not woman, but girl) who is actively dating someone else?
Are you serious?
You can't let her go out and sleep with someone else and just put up with it because she thinks she wants to be with you eventually. No. She also said that when she agreed to become your fiance but she changed her mind then too, didn't she?
What if she gets attached to one of these guys and ends up leaving you?
Is that how you want it to work?
I'll tell you right now that the only way she'll go back to you is if this other man breaks her heart. She's using you as her back up plan.
It's happened to me before and it sucks and it's not worth it.
You know...it's one thing when someone makes a mistake and slips and cheats and apologizes for it and acknowledges how horrible they are for doing it. It's another thing to cheat on you multiple times, also with your friend, and leave you home alone knowing that she's out banging some other guy and building an emotional connection with him.
You're setting yourself up to be miserable.

You know that...her doing this, and you letting her do this...only proves that neither of you are strong enough to be getting married anytime in the near future, most especially to eachother. It's not rocket science. Tweet