Your 21? Im 22 and I know what u mean. Our age bracket is hard to find someone who doesnt like the club scene. Thats why the guy Im talking to now is a keeper b/c he doesnt drink,loves and admire God, and most of all he has his head on his shoulders career wise and he is 21. I would be stupid to let someone like him go....
You just gotta make some baby steps mentally with yourself. Im reading this emotional.self-esteem audio tape and its helping.