Thanks very much for all the replys!! I can understand being married and the person caring for you and helping you as would i if it was the other way round.
But at my age 21 its hard to find some1 who doesnt want to go out all the time, and not willing to drink. But to be honest life is short and i dont expect anybody my age to even be like that. Therefore if i got in a relationship i could lean towards drinking, which im not ready for yet.