The poster needs to listen to the "caution" voice in her head...one cannot declare to be in "love" when one barely KNOWS the "beloved"; it's still just projection and infatuation at this point when 2 people are finding out who the other really is.
I loved the partidge family song, but there are too many people willing to take advantage of honest, love-hungry women with stars in their eyes. When SHE feels COMFORTABLE saying "I love you", then that is the right time.