Re: Telling someone that you are falling for them?..

You are clever! I like your style.

My only caution would be that guys often say cute things like that...and they ARE as interested as they sound at the time.

But they can just as quickly bolt if they feel if they are liked MORE than they like you. Suddenly that makes them feel smothered and they have no conscience about the previous declarations of undying love as they make a cowardly get-a-away, such as "weird feelings" did.

I'm sure YOUR guys aren't like that, but just in case...

We women generally aren't familiar with power games, but guys are raised with them -acutely aware of who's on top at any given time in their social and business stratosphere. I guess it's not too surprising they apply the same standards to their relationship.