Re: Whats the best outcome here? -need some good advice

I agree with you. You need to start communicating w/ him and find out what he wants and what you want or else a good two years will pass you by and your STILL wishing upon a star.... You both need to come to an agreement and try to get on the same page here. And if you arent on the same page, then it doesnt hurt to depart. That way you both can move on and not feel guilty for holding the other person back.