Yes, I have an aunt that had been a fixture in our house for the first 4 weeks and I just started to be able top take full responsability again, I do have family that will take the boys, but then I feel guilty for passing them off, not only that I don't like being alone when I feel like this. Do you feel like that sometimes? You just do not want to be alone? Taking care of them gets me in mommy mode and I try to clear my head and do what I do be a mom.