North,
Children are not spoiled by a parent who helps them access something they reach for at 6 months. Children are spoiled by NOT having a parent who will help them access something they reach for at 6 months. Negligence is what spoils children, not attention. The Playpen, the x-box.....those are the tools used to spoil children. Don't take my word for it. Do a google.
Blessings~
Sem