Re: He is classic

I agree. Whether or not he is an N is a different matter. I am having trouble determinig that with a very recent and short time with a woman. If we were still together, things may have become more apparent.

This man is undermining you're sense of self very slowly. The word insidious can often be used with this behaviour. It is so slight it goes unnoticed. I think this was the case for me but it never became too bad or too apparent. Mine was a short term thing, but still it left me feeling drained, insecure. I don't think for me I care about how this person has behaved...To a degree... I care about the fact that this person pretended in a very good way that she cared about me, when she clearly didn't. That hurts.

If you want out. Get out. But I would be prepared for him to play with your emotions yet again. As Ive read. A Narcissist will be very nice and will fool you, purely because he is setting you up for a fall.

There is so much info around it's overwhelming and Ive read far to much over the days that I begin to think the problem is me and that I am an N

but I always return to this site...


http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/six.html


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