Re: My apartment is straining my relationship

You can always change your apartment. Your feelings
may also be reflecting your inner landscape too since,
if you were in love, the inside of a tent or even a
cardboard box can feel like home.

You mentioned in earlier posts, you are young, AND
you are working at forgiving a man who recently used
another woman like a whore and got a blowjob from her.
This may indicate issues he is having, or issues which
involve the relationship both of you have together,
but certainly, it does not reflect a relationship
that is healthy.

I think this would be a good time to do some serious
soul searching. Are you discomforted in your surroundings
because of your emotional turmoil or can some pictures
and a new bedspread and cloth napkins really help??

If you really feel the apartment is the problem, move
or rearrange the two pieces of furniture you have over
and over until it feels better. Otherwise, know that
you may need to move on by yourself and find someone
you can feel at home with no matter where you are.

best wishes,
Zoe

-_-