Re: A place to live

Marriage is two people leaving their family to be one, you clearly make this not so and are more of an example of lets do our own thing and this is not what the common marriage was about that makes a loving family raising children and not one I would brag about to anyone EVER.

Marriage to many is just a piece of paper and that's all it is as far as the government is concerned. Most people just tolerate each other and as you suggest, many just ignore the other.

When it gets to the extreme of YOU buy your FOOD and I will buy MIND, then I suggest that marriage was dead along, along time ago. It would appear to be just two people living together for some unknown reasons other than maybe the two of them just like it that way.

What brings up the argument is the definition of MARRIAGE and thus a return post to anyone that suggest living in such a manner constitutes marriage, because it doesn't in my veiw. When it comes to having to buy your own food and doing your own thing, KICK THE OTHER ONE TO THE CURB and get a life of your own, because 1 of the 2 is not happy and ONLY tolerating the ways of the other. In my veiw, a very dead marriage.

Marriage being a religion thing from the get go, so naturally we all have our own veiws, hopefully those who have children can act more grown up and live together as a couple and not two stubborn kids with so many hangups they can't get along in the same house.

I suggest 60% of the people living in the same house as a couple having sex, are in the wrong house and prove it eventually by moving out. These 60+% are the lost souls wondering with out happiness, they have this problem:
It is "I", what "I" want and they have no reason to live with another person except to USE THEM like a dirty rug they can pitch when they are done and ready to MOVE ON.

People just living together anyway they choose became popular after world war II and has went down hill ever since. Naturally they can call them selves married and many such people get married 5 times or more, because every person they ever slept with is zero differance, not one is respected any better than the last was, when they are done, they move on and ONLY those who love each other end up staying together and cna reach the 50+ year marriage mark or what we would call married for life.

Naturally many married people are stil married and living separate in the same house, because they don't love each other at all, they just tolerate the situation because one of them is scared to move away from the other. These are missirable people living a fake marriage, one dominate person over the other and the other does what they are forced to do. To the extreme, they have other sex partners and just live missirable lives with no direction.

Marriage is a word best left out of conversation, because few have mastered it and most have been used by many that are "I" people who make up the marriage rules to fit their needs an if the other person doesn't accept it, they can sleep else where and many sad/lonely people are too scared to kick the abusing mate out and allow them to drag their lives down in the mud to the point they must live separate lives in the same house.

This is WHY PAUL made it very clear, if your able, stay away from all mates and live your life pure and dedicated to spiritual things.. Even back then, he states the BAD MARRIAGE the person is better to live on the roof top than live in the house of a bad mate.

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