It would be nice to find someone to live with, with the same views. Actually it might be easier to find a partner that leaves you free in your choices. Even alternative living has a lot of variations and it won't be easy to find someone that has the same outlook.
Though I am a senior citizen, my husband and I leave eachother free with our own decisions. He buys his food and takes care of himself and I buy my own food.
Most problems start, which is with a lot of things like politics etc, when you want the other person to follow your views.
A partnership should be a commitment and let eachother be his/her own person.