Ladies, you need to take control or your bodies! If your husbands don't want to wear a condom, then they don't get any sex.......period! Or they can go and get snipped. That is reversable if you want kids later. Look, you've both have carried around another human inside of your body, a few times. The least they can do is put a flippin' condom on! Why does it have to be up to us? I mean, the last time I looked there wasn't a star in the east when we all got pregnant! It's time the men started stepping up to the plate. It's easy for them to set back and say they would like 10 kids, they aren't the ones who have to carry them! Good Goddess!